My first overseas visit – lessons beyond engineering

My first overseas visit – lessons beyond engineering

I still remember the day I left Nepal for my first long journey abroad. It was not just a journey across countries; it felt like stepping into a completely unknown world. In 1992, I received a scholarship to undertake a postgraduate diploma in earthquake engineering in Skopje, Macedonia, then part o
Tongariro Crossing

Tongariro Crossing

  THE FIRST HOUR “WAIT FOR ME”  I bellowed as I caught up  to papa, it was a hot summer day  perfect  for a day to do the Tongariro crossing, to walk 20km, perfect to walk for 8hrs. I was currently last right now as others had a head start, but I was a
A Time Traveler

A Time Traveler

When I stand on the sidewalk, I feel an uncanny sense of being a 17th-century time traveller. I watch as humans shielded within sleek pods transport from one location to another in mere seconds while motorways hang like ribbons suspended in time. To accomplish real time travel, however, one must tra
Contribution to Community Work from Immigrants’ Perspective

Contribution to Community Work from Immigrants’ Perspective

Some societal problems can be effectively resolved only through coordinated community action, rather than by individuals, government, or private services alone. People mostly undertake community work voluntarily or collectively as members of a community to improve social well-being, strengthen coope
Turning  Imperfections into Strengths .....

Turning Imperfections into Strengths .....

We live in a world that glorifies perfectionism in careers, social spaces, and individual lives. Perfectionism is the act of setting excessively high standards for oneself or organizations in pursuit of flawless outcomes. Motivational speakers, coaches, and mentors often emphasize perfection and dri
ROUTEBURN TRACK – A FATHER AND SON JOURNEY

ROUTEBURN TRACK – A FATHER AND SON JOURNEY

The first time I ever heard of the Routeburn Track was not from a friend, not from a book, and not from a documentary, but from an Air New Zealand safety video many years ago. It looked beautiful, of course, but I never imagined I would one day attempt it. In Nepal, multi‑day walking was not a rec
From Popcorn to Paperbacks

From Popcorn to Paperbacks

I have always been an avid movie lover, and I still am. Movies have always been my preferred joyful pastime. And I never thought I would write this, as there was a time, ages ago, when finishing and truly understanding a book entirely was a daunting task. My study table in school and college days ov
Getting Help

Getting Help

Growing up in Nepal, we were always surrounded by extended families and close nit community. I used to get to witness this well while visiting my birthplace Jhapa where everyone knew everyone else. If there was any major event like birth, marriage, death, festival and more, everyone would come toget
My Journey Towards Healing

My Journey Towards Healing

Hi, it’s me again, the crazy lady who loves to talk about mental health. My journey started a long time ago, in fact it stared in April 2010 when our lovely Baba who people always remembered as a person who loved his life, a person who always had a smile on his face and someone who everyone co
Conscious Solitude is NOT Loneliness

Conscious Solitude is NOT Loneliness

Social surveys and reports in New Zealand provide insights into the prevalence and impacts of loneliness of varying magnitudes across people of different ages. This trend is set to worsen in the future. It is expected that loneliness exists in the Nepali community in some form. Therefore, a discours